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To everyone
involved in bringing Aggie into Jack’s life,
Imagine an affectionate, kind-hearted nine-year-old boy who does well at
school and enjoys his friends, loves his food and spends a lot of time
reading and drawing. Sound normal? We think so, and Jack would love other
people to think so too.
He
would love to be able to speak more easily so that he can hold a longer
conversation with them. A better memory would be useful too. He would
really like if strangers didn’t look at his walking frame before they look
at him. And as for people making comments about him as if he wasn’t there…
it happens all the time. Oh, and he would also like an extra pair of arms
as his own arms are constantly occupied guiding a walking frame!
Life can be very frustrating for someone with Ataxic Cerebral Palsy,
especially when the environment is noisy and busy with lots of people,
movement and obstacles. Changes in the structure of the day can be a
challenge and hard to deal with, such as switching from term-time to
holidays and the other way around. Opportunities to take part in
after-school activities are limited as he needs an assistant at all times in
case of a fall and to deal with heavy doors, usually preventing access to
toilets! Many mainstream sports are off-limits if inclusive facilities are
not available and if activity leaders are not open-minded or simply don’t
have training in the area.
Jack is our gorgeous son and we wouldn’t change him for the world, but we
are constantly trying to think of things that would make life a little bit
easier for him. Imagine our delight when, while doing some internet
research one day we found an Irish website about dogs for people with
disabilities. As Jack loves dogs, we just had an immediate sense that it
would be a good idea to apply to go on their waiting list. What we didn’t
realise was that it would turn out to be, not simply a “good idea”, but a
life-changing decision for the better!
Up to the end of October 2009, Jack used a walking frame exclusively. When
we heard that Irish Dogs for the Disabled had identified a suitable dog for
him, Jack was motivated to start practising to walk using tripod walking
sticks. Within four weeks, he was confident enough to leave the walking
frame at home and just bring his walking sticks to Cork. This was an
incredible achievement for a nine-year old with balance problems and low
muscle tone.
Jack met his stability dog, Aggie, for the first time at the start of
December 2009. We embarked on a two-week training programme in Cork which
should have been a daunting prospect. However it was made surprisingly easy
by the wonderful welcome we received from Jennifer Dowler, head trainer, and
Ger Dillon, CEO, of Irish Dogs for the Disabled.
Aggie is a beautiful two-year old Golden Retriever with a lovely calm
disposition – Jack adored her from the minute he met her. She has been
trained as a stability dog which means that Jack can walk holding Aggie’s
harness on one side and using a walking stick on the other. The difference
this has made to Jack is incredible.
On his second day of training, Jack said to us, “I love Aggie because no-one
looks at me anymore.” In his mind, the burden of going out in public with a
visible disability had been lifted. The happiness that this gives him is
worth more than we can ever put into words. Aggie attracts all the
attention; when people meet Jack and Aggie, they stop to admire her and ask
him what her name is. He loves this and has become more sociable and less
fearful of having to speak to both friends and strangers as a result.
Physically, he has become stronger and fitter, due to all the walking he has
been doing when out with Aggie. The quality and volume of his speech has
improved due to practising the verbal commands he must use when walking with
her.
Jack is responsible for grooming Aggie every day - a job he never complains
about. She is a constant, dedicated companion which is important to him as
life can be a little bit isolating sometimes. Aggie has won over four
generations of Jack’s immediate family, not to mention neighbours and
friends – even in the few short weeks over Christmas, we can’t imagine what
life would be like without her!
A huge thank you to the two amazing women behind Irish Dogs for the
Disabled, Jennifer Dowler and Ger Dillon. And a heartfelt thanks to the
foster family who looked after Aggie so well for the first year of her life
– without them, Jack wouldn’t have such an affectionate, calm, healthy dog
to help him make his way in life.
Yours sincerely,
Emer Sherry and John Caldwell
Jack’s parents:
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